Seperated

Are you seperated from Christ when you willing commit a sin? Example: going out and drinking then going to church on Sunday Morning to ask for forgivness, or using curse words instead of other words that can get the same meaning across and blaming it on the people you are around.

Divorce

so you want a divorce, is there a a right and wrong way to pursue this? Also should you get a divorce for other reasons than your spouse being unfaithful? Should getting counseling after the divorce be a necessity?