Sunday, March 29, 2009

LOVE DARE: Day Five



Day Five: Ask your bride to tell you

THREE THINGS

that cause her to be Uncomfortable or Irritated with

YOU.

Note: you must do so WITHOUT Attacking them or Justifying

your Behavior.

8 comments:

miguel said...

i don't know if i really wanna ask.
ya know?
i mean 3 things is BIG. but i bet my fiance wouldn't have any problem coming up with 3.
I'll ask her monday.

miguel said...

since i'm gonna ask monday,
i'll go ahead and guess what she'll say...

i make decisions without discussing
i talk down to her in front of friends

i don't remember important things

miguel said...

well guys, i dropped the ball.
i have NOT asked my fiance what are these 3 things.
perhaps tonight.

miguel said...

i finally asked...
she said ...

my tone

changing from jokingmiguel to seriousmiguel without warning

and making decisions without her

Anonymous said...

I would have to say without out asking her three things would be not what i say but the way i say them putting her before other things taking interest in things that interest her. i.e. school. f.b.

miguel said...

thanksgiving anonymous, we appreciate your input, here at tribalinc.

it's occurred to me, that with focus i can, like a magnifying glass harness such energy into correcting these three.

of course, one at a time.

Anonymous said...

Do you think a book is really gonna help?
Do you believe men will change?
I saw the movie, and I couldn't help but think how fake .
sy

Anonymous said...

sy,
why don't you stop being so negative?
are you really that jaded?